4 bedroom, 2 bathroom Condominium in Sea Colony - Sleeps 8 - 8 People Price Range: $2800 - $3800 Per Week Vacation Rental Description ~Designer Decorated 4 Bedroom Ocean Front Condo ~Spectacular Panoramic Ocean View ~Fully Equipped Kitchen ~Ocean Front Balcony ~Ocean View from Living Areas and Master Bedroom ~New Mattresses in all the Bedrooms Property Reference 17347 he couldn't shake the conviction that people didn't really care about them. When someone asked him, as I did, what he wanted, his first instinct was that he was being mocked or deceived. No wonder he got angry, I recognized — since he thought there was no way I could actually care what he wanted, he figured I was patronizing or taking advantage of him. This belief also explained why he wasn't satisfied in his career. Because he was convinced that his goals and dreams “didn't matter,” he — like many people — chose his career based on other people's expectations. He took a job that was relatively lucrative and prestigious because he believed it would satisfy his father, his wife and kids, his friends and others in his life. Since he gave no thought to his own happiness, it's no surprise he settled into a career that left him unhappy. It took a little coaxing, but ultimately I was able to convince him I actually cared what he wanted and I wouldn't scorn or ridicule him if he told me. When he began to trust that he had a safe place to reveal his desires, his seeming confusion about what he wanted evaporated and we quickly arrived at a list of career possibilities he resolved to explore. He knew what he desired, and he had the talent to make it happen. He just needed reassurance that it was okay for him to have desires in the first place. I'm consistently struck by the number of people I meet who get uncomfortable talking or thinking about what they desire in life. For various reasons, they've learned it's unsafe or shameful for them to consider what they want. They've gotten used to being called “selfish,” “stupid,” “crazy” and other epithets by people around them if they come clean about their wishes and needs. Location: Sea Colony it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests delaware